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insomniasexx  ·  4063 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Did you know that there is an unofficial Hubski IRC?

    22:06 theadvancedapes: question for @insom 22:06 theadvancedapes: how do you think girls in our generation are approaching marriage and long-term relationships? 22:06 theadvancedapes: In general 22:06 theadvancedapes: like 20-30 year olds

theadvancedapes I don't know. I won't speak for all girls but...I like being in a more serious relationship but I'm simultaneously focused on my career and being active and learning new things which aren't conducive to a relationship. My last relationship ended because I was too damn busy. I enjoy more casual sex a lot but I miss my cuddles and having a supportive person by my side that I can be there for and have him be there for me. I have yet to find a best of both worlds scenario and right now I'm not on the hunt for any guy or relationship. Just chillin', workin', drinkin', etc.

I forsee myself getting married, having kids, etc in a while. Depends on the guy, the relationship, my career. I want kids for sure though but I want them raised in a totally financially and emotionally stable household - like I was. When the time is right I'm sure everything will come together.