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Been there; done that. The most recent girl I dated was depressed to the point that she didn't do anything sometimes. It aggravated me, because she was really smart, pretty and talented. I tried to get her to seek help, but she refused. I even offered to pay for the whole thing, because I cared about her, and wanted her to get better. In the end, just like with addicts, you can't help anyone who doesn't want to help themselves.I had a romantic interest of over two and a half years once. I ended it not because she was seeing a therapist, but because she was not (and definitely needed to). At some point, you have to detach yourself from a sinking ship if the person is not interested in doing the difficult work of saving themselves.