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b_b  ·  3945 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski Drink Club - Club Mead: What Was Learned?

Mainly we all learned that I am not, in fact, a man of principle.

Seriously, though, I'm glad that I held the stance I did all through my 20s. I've had no fewer than three women who would have married me in a heartbeat, had I asked. Were I inclined in that direction, I think I would have made a premature--and certainly sub-optimal--choice, and I may have regretted it for a long time. Now I have the girl I've always wanted, so I can handle quite a bit of ribbing from friends and family. It's worth it.