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How does your finance feel about weddings? I have never formed an opinion, like I'm "supposed to" about what mine would be like if I had it. I think I've stated elsewhere but I've nailed down what I would want, very loosely: a backyard wedding in good weather with great music, all my friends, and lots of alcohol. Maybe I'd wear white. And that's as picky as I can get on the topic. I don't care about the kind of peacocking that goes with a lot of weddings. I wouldn't want a gown or a church or probably any religion. I don't care what the flowers are. We can eat ribs and fried chicken for all I care.