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lil · 3869 days ago · link · · parent · post: Hubski, What Are Some Of Your Personal (Dating) Relationship Guidelines/Rules?
re no sex on first date -- how do I say this impolitely - I meant no full contact sex. Rather than Platonic love, I'd say it was Platectonic love: "rigid lithospheric plates that move slowly over the underlying mantle." I had another rule _ref_. It was this:
Don't date guys in the same city as me. I lived in a good-sized urban centre (pop. 350,000) and 60 km (40 miles) from a very large urban centre. There is less chance of them hanging around all the time when they live in another city. (But note, as I said before, I didn't smarten up until I was 38.)