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ButterflyEffect  ·  3887 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Stop Saying "I Have A Boyfriend"

    I think we're all terrible people sometimes and I don't know if it would be the best for us to try not to be all the time.

No, it wouldn't be. I'm trying to figure out how to phrase this without sounding like an asshole, but sometimes being a terrible person is what needs to be done. 8bit hit the nail on the head with what he wrote above. I say things and put on an air when I know damn well what I'm getting at, and based on how the other person responds I know if it's working or not. And out of those times sometimes whatever angle I'm playing works, and I win. It's a good feeling sometimes, other times it's a terrible feeling depending on the situation. But it's a good way of getting information.