It is, but that's fine. I don't know if the insecurity (which might be too strong of a word) that new posters feel when they first come here is a good or bad thing. I felt it when I first came here and tried to prove my value to... who? But I think you'll find posts in the vein of yours will receive (edit: next to..) no responses. Hubski likes to compare itself to a bar. Let's say this is a dive bar and the familiars are friends, acquaintances, or have at least seen each other on occassion. Do you walk in for the first time, start going person to person and say "hey what's the most traumatic thing you've experienced"? Nope. Its usually best to hang out for a while, get used to the crowd and the faces and the culture. I think this is the first time I've welcomed someone to hubski... I'm not too shy of a year and still don't feel very qualified. But welcome to hubski.(this seems like a terrible first post)