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user-inactivated  ·  3779 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Is It Time To Lower Your Standards?

We're saying the same exact thing, you're just being pessimistic and cynical about it.

Accepting other qualities is only "fake-speak" if you find that recognizing that nobody is going to be the perfect person you want them to be is a bad thing. Which, if it is...good luck being in a solid, fruitful relationship, I guess?