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OftenBen  ·  3834 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Amazon Is Killing My Sex Life

    I've found that the second you stop yearning for a date is the second you accidentally trip over a guy you can genuinely care about.

This happens for guys too. I stopped worrying about finding SOULMATE TM, and just had fun (used tinder to be honest), I found somebody really special.

Also, now that I'm not looking for anything at all, I'm getting hit on. I DO NOT GET HIT ON. I KNOW IT'S AN OLD, OVER USED TROPE, BUT WHERE WERE THESE GIRLS WHEN I WAS SINGLE?