To be fair, sometimes my opinions on feminism run controversial (but on the more liberal side of the spectrum, as opposed to more conservative). But I've had problems with finding out people were, well, kind of anti-feminist, weeks into dating them. I am trying to think what else I can discuss: gun rights (but I'm pretty sure he and I will agree on them based on passing remarks); abortion (no idea). We've briefly discussed religion/spiritualism before and he falls on the more esoteric side of the spectrum but I could bring it up again. I already know where he falls on drug use. So come on guys, what else can I come up with? It's true that the down side of this approach is he may end up being perfect and I'll fall in love with him...but I doubt it :)