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ButterflyEffect  ·  3732 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Why She Slept With You: The Unapologetic Cheater

    It takes a long time for the whole story to emerge unless you are writing a biography of the person or asking targeted questions.

A couple of thoughts: That's a nice list you put together, and as you said it would take a while to parse through all of that information. It ends up with one having to prioritize what is important to know and what you would be fine with learning down the road. For me, the questions are what are things that would prevent us from having a stable relationship (friendship or intimate)? Which could come from any number of things.

Of course, some of the questions that you have listed could be readily available online but that is a whole other issue and can of worms.