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galen  ·  3521 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Meta-Communication: Trying to Understand Comments on Hubski

    Maybe not in a binary sense from 1 to 0 immediately

For me this is the crucial part. I can't immediately stop caring about someone just to avoid a conflict. It takes place over time, and in the interim you have to have other, more interpersonally-focused strategies for dealing with conflict.