Buying a gun as a reactionary measure to a traumatic event isn't exercising the best sound judgement.

So true. It's been the most intense emotional override of my brain's logical systems that I've experienced in about a decade.

I grew up shooting guns, but mostly rifles and shotguns. Got my shotgun merit badge as a boy scout. My girlfriend will be trained in gun safety, use, and legislation by myself, curricula, and an instructor(s) over the course of the next few weeks. I'm not giving her a choice. Not sure if I'll go for a concealed carry permit, but probably not.

If you're going to have a gun for the purpose of self defense, you better be damn good and ready to actually kill and deal with all the consequences thereafter. Otherwise it's a liability and could cause more harm than good.

In the heat of a moment, I can't tell you what I'd do. I'd hopefully assess the situation correctly and quickly, and then determine whether to shoot to wound or shoot to kill.

Seriously, know the laws.

I'm quoting this to re-emphasize for the third time, because I approve wholeheartedly.

Thanks for the advice, it's a great summary.

Incidentally, I just saw someone almost die in a major automobile accident on my way to the airport. Made the 911 call immediately while my uncle ran to prevent a man with a head injury from stumbling into oncoming traffic. Adrenaline reserves are running low at the moment.