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TheVenerableCain  ·  3498 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 16 way split - Personality Types - Briggs Myers Jung

I avoid conflict as well. Not sure what you mean by unhealthy boundaries. Definitely suppress my emotions, though it's more automatic than a conscious effort. I find long drives at night to be very helpful in sorting out things in my mind. I'm focused on a task that is relatively mundane, which uses enough brainpower to allow me to cut through the "noise" long enough to get things straightened out. I'd suggest finding something similar and see if it helps you. The user lil has a blog with some helpful information regarding social interaction and various other topics. I've found it very informative, though I'm unable to truly understand and implement the concepts for myself. It's good to know how other people work, though.