The goalposts have moved. Do you agree that women need to be showing they are under attack from people who are doing so because they are a woman, and that people currently claiming they are under harassment because of their gender have not shown that this is so? From what I have observed, this flat out is not true. Perhaps it happens in low quality, idiot-territories, that I don't visit, but I have never seen this happen. Rape-jokes maybe, but directly saying "i'm going to rape you" in the sexual manner (it's used sometimes as a "absolutely destroy/pillage/rape") is something I have never seen.Women are more often attacked using rape threats, sexual harassment, gendered slurs, etc.
Saying you're going to rape a female, is met with hoots and howls, at worst silence but rarely dissent.