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lil  ·  3035 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: June 29, 2016

I am so inspired by subheadings, bfx, do you mind if I steal yours?

People

Thinking I'm going to not end things with the person I've been seeing. bfx: if being alone is better than being together, that's all you need to know about that relationship.

Other People

But as delightful as they are, people are distracting. I need to spend some time on the Hard Questions and the Real Work.

Health

Luckily bf has been dragging me out cycling and canoeing. Otherwise I'd never be coaxed out of the burning house of my mind. In fact, I should get off hubski right now and head out into the beautiful day. (PDT, so it's still morning)

Plants and Shit

Still trying to unclutter the pile of work.

Really the Only Thing That Matters

Right now? I don't know. So many things matter: I'm far away from my daughter and mother - both seem well, so that's good. I continue to nudge the ex-spousal-unit into signing the separation agreement please, finally, please!! but he's so unwell that when the vacuum cleaner broke, he fired the cleaning lady. I am 5000 km away, but even so I am attempting to arrange for a vacuum cleaner and a cleaning lady to show up at the same time before he drowns in cat hair.

I wish only one thing really mattered. It would help me focus. I just had an idea. I'll try and make only one thing matter for the next hour and see how that works.