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I hate to say it man, but not your circus, not your monkeys. Your desire to help is fucking admirable. But he isn't going to respond to that until he hits bottom. And he's a long ways from that, still. Sadly. Bottom won't happen until after he goes back to momma's house, gains another 150 lbs, and realizes at some point that he is unaware of what season it is, and then gains another 50 lbs, decides to kill himself, announces it to someone, and then - finally - gets the help he needed for the last 5 years, but was not "bad enough yet" to accept it. All you can do at this point is learn from his mistakes. He's an object lesson now. Not someone you can help.