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I thnk your attitude towards the relationship might be flawed. Putting yourself out there includes offering something to a relationship, an investment or a sacrifice. Im not sure how friendship/intimacy compromises integrity, unless your partner is a tribal warlord or a malicious Ponzi scheme operator. I think its possible that you mean by integrity is actually the vulnerability involved in seeking a relationship, not to mention the vulnerability of committing to one. You gotta get a little out of your comfort zone to get funky. Source: my roommate snuck a handle of Tito’s in through campus security.integrity is not something I'm willing to trade for a company of another person.