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AnSionnachRua  ·  4388 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: My Ex-Gay Friend

While I admire the sentiment - living life according to one's own principles - "individual definitions" of collective terms seem, well, utterly useless. If I have my own idea of what my being gay means, that's fine, but if I try to talk with someone else it just won't work, as Raxyn suggests.

It's like if I decided that "cheese" referred to pigeons. No-one would understand me.