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lil  ·  4388 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: My Ex-Gay Friend

Except that most people agree that there is a continuum running from 100% gay to 100% straight with most people somewhere in between - so how can you define gay as a collective term when there are 50 shades of gay and you can live your life redefining it from time to time.

    If I have my own idea of what my being gay means, that's fine, but if I try to talk with someone else it just won't work

It won't work if they insist that gay means only one kind of gay.