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user-inactivated  ·  4135 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Are/Were You Looking For (in a relationship)? Did You Find It?

I think I understand, but I meant it perhaps a tad more literally -- I like being in relationships where if we don't talk for 24 hours, it's not earth-shattering. Am I going to make an effort to interact in some way every day? Of course. If I don't or can't for some reason, it better not be an issue.

That's sort of what I meant, but again it's hard to make it seem non-insulting or cavalier. And I know what you mean about relationships needing to have room for both personalities.