My ex-girlfriend is from the US.
We were together for about two years after meeting each other in Barcelona. I went state side for a while and she came and lived with me in Australia for a year. She left at the end of June and we both decided that our lives were going in different directions and we needed to follow our own paths. Which really sucked. But we parted on good terms and still talk fairly regularly.
I recently met a guy who wants to take me out for a drink. I want to go. I like meeting new people. I like dating. I like being social. But is it too soon? Is there a certain period that must elapse before I can start something new? Is there a rubric for people like me who have no clue? Will I be doing the woman I loved an injustice by moving on so quickly? Will people care? Should I care if people care?
I want the answer to be no. But I have a tendency to over think things like this.
What's hubski's opinion? How soon is too soon to move on? How long is long enough? Does it vary by circumstance? Should I wait? Am I being too whiney? :P