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b_b  ·  3831 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What you wish you had known @ 18.

I would remind myself that there's never going to be a time again in your whole life where there are that many hot chicks in one place at one time, and single no less. Unfortunately, the bystander effect makes so many of those young women seem not nearly as attractive as they really are at that time. Shameful, really.





ButterflyEffect  ·  3831 days ago  ·  link  ·  

This is something I've been struggling with mightily lately. Mainly because I'm moving in less than a month, and then again a little over a month after that. And am trying not develop feelings for a good friend from high school / back home.