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While focusing on others can be a great thing, you can be much more helpful to people when you are at your best. Self improvement is all that it is made out to be and more. I would consider volunteering an action of self-betterment. When I've taken the time to help others in need, I tend to learn quite a bit and I get a sense of personal satisfaction that certainly makes me mentally "better." -I don't think the two are mutually exclusive. OftenBen, in regards to relationships, you'll have plenty of time for such things and though it's cliche I have found that it is true that, one finds romance when they're not looking.