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user-inactivated  ·  3933 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How can I be a better single guy?

Don't give a fuck.

I'm being serious about this. Don't fucking care about anyone except yourself. Accept the fact that the only person you need to care about is yourself, because the world doesn't owe you anything.

Fuck that noise. You wanna die thinking about all the shit you wish you had done but didn't because you spent it trying to make other people happy? That's bullshit. No one else matters, when you get right down to it.

That doesn't mean you become an asshole. It just means you focus on yourself, first. The key here is first. Put your needs first, and you'll become happier. It sounds narcissistic, but it's not. It's setting priorities.

Edit: I think some of this can be rescinded. Been in a bad mood.