That sounds awful. For me, parties can be absolutely wonderful but only when there is good music that I enjoy dancing to or music at a level at which I can have a constructive conversation with interesting people. But crappy music, surrounded by crappy people equals a crappy experience. There was definitely a time in my life when I would have enjoyed a party like that though, but only because I would have been trying to hook up with girls. That was in my 16 to 24-year-old phase. A couple of years ago I went out in Chapel Hill, on the UNC campus with some friends. We ended up at a bar full of undergrads and I've never felt so out of place in my life. I think people must have thought I was an undercover cop for a giant pervert.… I'm definitely not an undercover cop.