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thenewgreen  ·  3873 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: Are You Reflective?

I don't know what my ratio is, but thinking about this and writing this is only adding to the reflection numbers :)

I think Berko Devor likely has a good point however, I wouldn't say it makes you "boring" in the sense that other people will find you boring, but it may make life more boring for you. Much of the time we spend with others is geared around reflection and not action. You might find a friend to be pretty difficult to be around if all they ever wanted to do was "experience." -That lil, she is so tiring to be around. That said, the constantly self-reflecting companion is also tiring to be around in a whole different way.

Yeah, I think 70/30 sounds about right Berko Devor, I'm with you.