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OftenBen  ·  3866 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, What Are Some Of Your Personal (Dating) Relationship Guidelines/Rules?

Best of luck to you BE, sounds like a pretty awesome summer.

It's definitely NOT what I want, but because I feel so strongly about her I'll take what I can get as far as time to be with her. (Massive schedule incompatibility all semester, she's going to be out of the country for a study abroad all summer, with one visit home for 2 days)

I guess it's one of those mixed-expectations things, women can be emotionally intimate with their friends and not physically, men can't, and thus equate emotional intimacy with impeding physical intimacy.

Or she's actually just really needy and I'm being strung along because she likes to have someone validate her and is afraid I'd go away if I didn't have that thread of maybe. /shrug