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I think part of the issue is that I am not particularly interested in having a crush in the moment and slightly terrified of dating. I am more interested in killing the crush. (Not literally.) In addition, if we were to date, we'd become the subject of much gossip. And if we were to break up, it would ruin the bar for me. But I do appreciate the sentiment of encouragement. My current plan is to discuss controversial topics/important topics with him and see if our views differ horrendously on any in such a way that will make him less attractive in my eyes. So feminism is going up on the list. Which at minimum will be a fun conversation either way, you know, right?