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lil  ·  3556 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How Do You Know You're Really in Love?

Title question was asked to me by a young man who thought that because I was with someone that I would know the answer.

Ha ha ha.

Ha ha ha.

When are you in love enough to make it last?

Answer: you don't know this until it lasts. At some point, you might say "I'm not leaving this person. I'm staying with this person as long as possible." it might not be the being "in love" that makes it last -- it might be all kinds of other things too. Good and worthy things. And just enough of that sticky love stuff maybe to hold it all together.