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thenewgreen  ·  3674 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How did you find yourself?

Yes, only an idiot wouldn't plan out such a large decision. Seriously, an idiot. That would be extremely irresponsible, especially given all the many, many birth control methods available. We waited till we had the time and resources available. We are older parents, I suppose, but I wouldn't have it any other way.