I'm guess that you haven't had many real relationships with women. I'm not just talking about fucking but friendships, positive work relations, mentors, and lovers. The amount of fear you seem to feel towards women is frightening to me. I'm frightened for you.

Be gay, stick with guys. With your creepy attitude it'd be best. The chances of you having an equitable and stimulating relationship with women you respect looks to be real low.

I'm an older White male. I have seen time and again how much that gets me. Not all the time, just most the time. I'm guessing you are a White male. There are a few real issues with how White men are treated in society but every one else has got it worse. There are a few issues with how men are treated in society, but women have it worse.

For every man falsely accused of rape there are at least ten women (and I'm guess that this is a severe underestimate of the numbers) who's rape is ignored by the powers that be when they file a complaint.

I'm guessing you are young and don't have a lot of perspective. Alimony isn't as common as it used to be when men were the only ones that worked. You may hate that it still exists but it's faded compared to yester year. The same goes for getting custody of kids. I know men who won custody of their kids, not because their ex's were drug addled maniacs but just because the man could provide a more stable and positive environment. That didn't happen when I was a kid. It's changing, change takes time.

Feminists have destroyed the traditional family, they've deprived men of the right to see their children, they've made marriage a suicidal choice for men, they've sent innocent men to jail for crimes they never committed, they've tried their best to make it impossible for a man to defend himself from an accusation of rape, they've justified female violence and ignored male victims of violence. Hate hate hate.

A very small number of feminist have the attitudes that ascribe to the group. Guess what, a very small number of people in any group have fucked up views. You are part of a group that has very fucked up views. Guess what, MRA guys are gutless fucks that have no idea how to relate to women as equals, see no value in them as anything other than a cooker of dinner and something to fuck. MRA guys are sad little men who instead of living a good life surrounded by people they value and love of all sex's cut themselves off from half the race unless that other half has no self respect for themselves at all.

You are filled with hate. I'm not surprised that you haven't had many positive interactions with feminist, it's be a lot like me having a positive interaction with a KKK member.

My wife is a self ascribed "feminist." She thinks alimony has got to be on it's way out. She has compassion for men that are getting fucked over by their ex-wives. She believes that rape accusations need to be proven beyond a reasonable doubt in a court of law. She doesn't think that when a guy and girl have some drinks and the girl regrets it later that a rape has happened.

Stop listening to the MRA guys. Go out, live life and take each person as an individual without sweating what does or doesn't dangle between their legs. The MRA guys will turn you into a sad fearful little man. Keep listening to them and the chances you ever have a real relationship with a women you respect are dim. You aren't a "self-respecting man" you are a coward that huddles in the corner fearful of the boogeywoman feminist, unable to have honest relations with half the human race because there is a tinsey tiny chance that something unfair might happen to you. Guess what, life can be unfair, it's a chance you need to take. Wait till you see a few friends and loved ones cut down in the prime of life, wait till you lose the baby after you've painted the nursery, watch a friend get his ass sued off because someone tripped on his sidewalk and maybe then you'll realize that occasionally someone has to pay alimony or gets charged with a crime he didn't commit and that life is just fucking unfair sometimes.