I didn't know you loved me. Unless you are the same steve as thenewgreen - I know he loves me. re. generating conversation - yeah, you caught me. Also, disagreeing with the question is absolutely respectful. I think the question "What are you looking for?" is a valid question; however, I think "what are you NOT looking for?" would be a more honest question and I think the answers have been more or less along those lines. We have a better idea of what we don't want than what we want. We don't know what amazingness the universe will bring us. I could never have imagined many of the people I have loved, never even conceived of looking for such a person.
I find your answer and the Bob Marley quote above from BLOB_CASTLE to be thought-provoking. thx.