I know you're just generating conversation, so I hope it won't sound disrespectful if I disagree with the question. You know I love you lil. :) I don't worry much about what I want(ed) from the other person - rather, I spend my life focusing on what I can give to that person. Some might say "Oh no steve! that's codependence!" To them I reply, not if it goes both ways. Great relationships aren't 50/50. They're 100/100.
I didn't know you loved me. Unless you are the same steve as thenewgreen - I know he loves me. re. generating conversation - yeah, you caught me. Also, disagreeing with the question is absolutely respectful. I think the question "What are you looking for?" is a valid question; however, I think "what are you NOT looking for?" would be a more honest question and I think the answers have been more or less along those lines. We have a better idea of what we don't want than what we want. We don't know what amazingness the universe will bring us. I could never have imagined many of the people I have loved, never even conceived of looking for such a person.
I find your answer and the Bob Marley quote above from BLOB_CASTLE to be thought-provoking. thx.
I'm not the same steve... (and it chaps thenewgreen every day that I got the username first) but I still totally love your contributions to hubski! I thought more about my response - and you're right - your question still has a large value, and I was thinking of it in a different way.
Yup. Good find! -One of my favourite guys out there is the Quote Investigator. He's actually looked up a few things for me. So far he has done only one Bob Marley investigation "some people feel the rain, others just get wet" - maybe he's up for another.
The calabash pipe sealed the deal for me. We should get this man on the case.