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comment by Floatbox

    And if you don't tip, or tip lowly you get dirty looks from people that came with you. So essentially you are forced to tip a "regular" amount, or even above. Which completely eliminates the feedback/rating part.

Well, wait, you aren't required to tip above. You're right in that etiquette requires tipping a 'normal' amount (15%) but there's always the potential that you tip above and beyond. Servers are compelled to prove to you that above and beyond tip.

    I don't see why it should be limited to restaurant servers, when they aren't the only people serving you.

Hey, I agree with you there. At sushi places, the sushi chefs have their own tipping jars I always make sure to frequent.

    All it does is drive up costs for the customers and makes the worker stressed out about being paid a "normal" amount.

Eh, I'd rather work at a place where I get tipped because I know I can make bomb tips because I can work it. I don't want to share my tips, I don't want to make the same amount no matter how good I am to my customers. I will dominate them with my service skills.





Kafke  ·  4076 days ago  ·  link  ·  

As I said, I'd rather see tipping as just a cultural thing where you'd tip whenever and wherever good service was found. Not just for waiters.

I see no problem with genuinely giving extra for hard/good work. But when it becomes culturally required, that's when I have a problem. I shouldn't have to tip, just because you don't get paid enough. I should tip when I feel like you did a good job.

I see it as a "donate" button on a website. You don't have to click it. But you do if you like the website.

Floatbox  ·  4076 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Hey, that's reasonable. Maybe I'm sympathetic because I work coffee where it isn't culturally required. But pro tip: tip your barista at least if he makes you a specialty drink. Or assume he doesn't like you. ;)

(If he just pours you drip coffee, another story. But if he's a nice dude and makes you a bomb ass latte, all it takes is fifty cents and he makes his 15%.)