First I write. Second I drink. Third, and only very rarely, but unfortunately for me recently, I remind myself of all the reasons revenge does not work. Hey, not-Pablo! Do you know what you get when you slash a bitch's tires? You get to buy her new tires. Not my experience, but my brother's; he had a girlfriend where really the choice they had made to be in a relationship at all was questionable. Her nickname was Trashley, because she liked to get trashed. My brother, by the way, is not legally allowed to drive due to DUIs and some other charges. So, great pair. Anyway, I think he cheated on her and she cheated on him and they ended up in a great big flaming drunken altercation one night. He decided to pour two beers on her bed and slashed 3 out of her 4 tires. Well, any reasonable person and many unreasonable people are going to see their car with fucked tires and think "Well damn. I can't really afford new tires. How do I make this person pay for this?" And to be honest, the answer is simple. It is called the legal system. Pretty much anyone can avail themselves of retribution for actual physical harm to objects or persons, with one phone call to the police department. So she called them and long story short, his act of revenge ended up gaining her 4 new tires. Unfortunately, I know for a fact that a certain person I am mad at would absolutely lawyer up if I punched them, no matter how merited I may feel that action would be. No matter her apology texts and statements that "she should cut off her nose and eat it" and I should "fuck her boyfriend and send her the video so that she would hurt too" or that she is "worse than shit." Regardless of all that she's said, I know that I am powerless against the law should she and her parents choose to bring in the law if I made the interaction physical. And so I do not and cannot. So when I'm really pissed, I remind myself that the only option for revenge is happiness/a good life/pouring all my energy back into improving myself. It can be hard at times and I have choice words I want to say to this person the next time I see her. But thankfully, no one can arrest me for telling her I can't hear her through all the dicks in her mouth. Honestly, the other day I was thinking about asking Hubski to remind me why revenge is never good, but we had kind of talked about it in another thread and to be honest I knew why - I just didn't want to acknowledge it, I guess. I was further down the upset scale and having difficulty talking myself down. In those circumstances, the best choice is inaction, or at least, not doing whatever grand revenge idea you are thinking of immediately. Put it on the ice. Hopefully by the time you get back to it you will have cooled off and will be able to see revenge for the bad idea it is.
This was royally satisfying. You've got a spectacular way with words. As for revenge, I hereby send you a million internet hugs to distract yourself from the temptation of stooping down to their level. I'm a little raw on the subject of cheating at the moment, so I'll hold off from putting down all the delightful words in my mind. this life is fucked, so to speak.So when I'm really pissed, I remind myself that the only option for revenge is happiness/a good life/pouring all my energy back into improving myself. It can be hard at times and I have choice words I want to say to this person the next time I see her. But thankfully, no one can arrest me for telling her I can't hear her through all the dicks in her mouth.
Ha, thanks. I'm a little loopy from tiredness at the moment, really. But yes I'm looking forward to telling her that, assuming I have the balls to break the laws of common decency and do it. I'm pretty mad at her and I think she merits blunt treatment. Not only did she do what she did but she then lied to my face about it when confronted, continued to deny it through the night despite verification by multiple sources, and only started texting me "I'm sorry" the next day which, by the way, ladies and gents, means "I'm really really sorry that you caught me". Thank you for the internet hugs. I am going to work out and get fabulously good-looking. I am going to write more. I am going to pour a lot of time into myself and I'm going to succeed in the areas where my passions lie. And did I say, I am going to get ridiculously fit and good-looking? It may be shallow but it should also be good physical exercise to release any pent-up anger. I send you homemade brownies. I hope you are doing something nice for T-Day. Also, people do stupid things. I've been a cheater before. It's a sucky thing to do to a person. You shouldn't do it. I guess I'm just saying, don't lose hope though. People are also immature and do really immature things in order to lash out at others. Hopefully, we all grow.
These brownies are freakin delicious, all I needed right now :) As of last Saturday, I have also cheated. Thank's for showing me its not all over. Happy thanksgiving to you and a good night. Just for the record, I honestly don't think that girl is worth a second of your time, but you know whats right.I am going to work out and get fabulously good-looking
. Yes! screw people calling douchebag for trying to be confident with yourself. You're gonna be the sexiest girl in the world, I promise. I've been at it for under a year, it's a cool culture to be a part of. When I'm not on the verge of passing out i'l tell you about something special regarding fitness. (edit: this sounded weird. I won't correct it)
Consider her dropped like a hotcake in the dirt. Haha, thank you for the encouragement. I assume you lift? Do you use SS or another program? I want to get into SS - maybe - or some kind of fighting/self defense program. Really, I want to box but it's hard to find a location for that around here. Enjoy that turkey. Avoid revenge-fucking people. (Not saying that you did. It's just bad policy.)Just for the record, I honestly don't think that girl is worth a second of your time, but you know whats right
And.. I like revenge fucking :( (not saying I did)
Good morning! I developed my own routine within the course of a month using what my gym has, and change it up every two months or so so my muscles don't get too used to the motions. I suggest going on bodybuilding.com, typing "(muscle group you want) exercises" in search and picking the best one for you (I prefer sorting them by rating, usually the best comes come up >9.0/10. I imagine my workout will be different from yours since you're a girl (for example, I can't say I spend an awful amount of time on my glutes) but you can easily find articles and make one for yourself with what your gym has. Only advice I can give is make sure you have good form. I mean, perfect form. this is a necessity that a lot of people overlook until they're in a wheelchair. shmedit: There's so, so much more to it. You'll learn (and really want) to keep an effective diet, you'll figre out how to incorporate cardio, how to reach your limits, and how to surpass them. And most importantly, you'll develop your motivation. This could be many things, but it usually ties in to one day. the "special thing' i mentioned yesterday is The Spartan Race. The Spartan Race. The Spartan Race. The Spartan Race. It is my love, it is my life, it is the best and happiest I've felt out of my last year that I ran it-- The Sprint that is, not the Death Race :s. Anyway, that's my motivation. In terms of bodybuilding, I suggest watching Kai Greene's videos. He's basically a monk with bicep peaks.