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_refugee_  ·  3937 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: On Seeing the 100% Perfect Girl One Beautiful April Morning, by Haruki Murakami

I'm willing to believe my views may change in the future. That's wherefore all my mights and maybes. Maybe I'll meet someone who's so great they'll convince me I'll be a great parent too - not in a bad way, more like in a kb00 sort of way.

And you know what? It is a good idea, also, to cut out of relationships when you realize they're not what you want. Which is probably another stick in the pile of "why I'm okay with the prospect of being in long-term but not permanent relationships for as long as it works for me."





b_b  ·  3937 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I'm willing to believe my views may change in the future.

Then you're doing better than I was at your age! I was always convinced that my views were steadfast. Flexibility is good. That's my advice based on life experience.

theadvancedapes  ·  3937 days ago  ·  link  ·  

mmmmmm... flexibility...

_refugee_  ·  3937 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I should take more yoga ;)