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humanodon  ·  4002 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Are Things You Thought You'd Absolutely Never Change Your Opinion About?

I used to think politics was boring and kind of a waste of time, but now I understand politics to be very important for how societies operate in that politics is a close cousin to group dynamics. I used to think the same thing about economics, but that's changed as well.

I also used to have this thing about friendship. For me to consider someone a friend, we'd have to get along really well and be supportive of each other, but also in the same general geographic region. Now, I don't think that last part is very important, but I do think that the willingness to maintain a friendship has to be there on both sides. Unfortunately, I now realize how many people think about friendship along the lines of how I used to think.

Lastly, I used to say that I would not date a girl with more body hair than I have. This is no longer the case, though it's not like I'm a huge fan of body hair now or anything.





_refugee_  ·  4001 days ago  ·  link  ·  

we uz frens

istara  ·  4001 days ago  ·  link  ·  

>Lastly, I used to say that I would not date a girl with more body hair than I have.

This really does depend a lot on how much of a bear you are. If you're bald male stripper waxed head to toe, sack to ass crack, I would say it was somewhat demanding.

If on the other hand you're a bearded mountain man with a thick pelt of hair from your shoulders to your ankles, then it's more reasonable.

humanodon  ·  4001 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Male stripper? No, at least not professionally. I am just genetically predisposed to have very little body hair.

b_b  ·  4001 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Me too. People always ask me if I'm a chest waxer. I'm not, but I'm as bald as Mr. Bigglesworth. It's abnormal, but I can't say I mind.

humanodon  ·  4001 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yeah, personally I don't see why it would be a plus to have body hair. For example, I never have to worry that the sunblock I put on, actually reaches my skin.