Oooooooh boy. If I'm in a bad mood, you're better off just not talking to me. The problem here is if I'm in a bad mood sometimes it spirals into a week of pissy/depressed bfx. Like you, I'm accomplishment focused and can be detached from people and situations. If I'm the middle of working on something I'd rather finish that than go see whoever. I get really aggravated if people and things keep me awake longer than I want to be awake. I will probably be very uncomfortable meeting your family because I don't like answering the inevitable questions about mine. cauliflower brings up a good one. I can be a really social and outgoing person for short periods of time. But if I have to do it for weeks at a time, I will probably crash at the end of it and be a miserable hermit until my chemicals balance themselves out again. The real baggage is that I will probably never be good enough to satisfy myself. But at least I don't have kids.