I care what people think of me, but within context of the relationship and my own view of myself. Not all relationships deserve the same consideration. When it comes to pursuing my own happiness, then I don't count people that are unaffected yet judgmental as worthy of consideration. I value the opinions of those with experience and especially success in a given area. I give little weight to opinions of people that do not have experience or success, even if they are people that are close to me. People are often insecure and unsure. The support of friendship is something that can be wonderfully consistent, and is usually more reliable than advice. I do my best not to defend my actions. If someone wants an explanation, I will offer one, but I make a point of not responding to judgement alone. I try not to apologize unless I really feel regret. I don't have to be liked by everyone, but I try not take the relationships I have for granted. I am working on being a better listener.