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comment by Idonknowwhattodo
Idonknowwhattodo  ·  3417 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Me [31 M] with my girlfriend [29 F] of 3 years, am I wasting her life?

Good points. I've never planned five years into the future, ever. So I need to think about a lot more than the relationship. But your looking-the-same-direction advice sounds very useful. Thanks!