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comment by tacocat

Sixteen years of missing family dinners. They tape around five and Stewart said in interviews he wants to eat dinner with his kids on a regular basis. But this Salon writer knows wanting to be a devoted father is a cunning ruse. So he can more effectively expand on a point for 3,000 words or whatever





Super_Cyan  ·  3459 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Sixteen years of missing family dinners.

That's got to be rough on him - He's got a 9 and 11 year old at home. To be a father cases about his kids and that's never home for dinner, or just the evening in general, must be hard. Think of all of the events that he probably missed in those years due to work: Dance recitals, school awards, "graduations", etc. He probably spends a lot of time wondering if his kids think that he's neglecting them, because he's never home. To do it for a little while isn't that bad, but doing to the point of looking at his kids every now and then and going "Wow, did he/she change a lot. When did that happen? Where was I?" (well, more than a normal parent), must get to him.

At the same time, Stewart's been at it for years. Imagine doing the same exact thing 5 days a week for 16 years. I'm not talking about having the same job - this man has to do literally the exact same thing every show. There's no chance to change titles. There's no moving around within the company or handling responsibilities, it's the same exact thing every single day. That doesn't mean he hates his job, but does having your favorite food every day for breakfast, lunch, and dinner for 16 years ever get tiring? He said himself that he's covered 4 elections already, and this one doesn't look any different. Take that a step further and his daily content really doesn't change either: FOX is stupid, CNN is overreacting, FOX just said something outrageous. Doing a job like Stewart has every day has to wear a person down.

tacocat  ·  3458 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I appreciate the quotes around "graduations" as someone who doesn't think every fucking milestone in a child's life needs to be celebrated. Even high school graduation isn't as big a deal as it's made out to be. "Congratulations on completing your legally mandated education. Now get ready for life to kick your ass between your ears." Actually, a party before that last thing happens makes a lot of sense.