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mknod  ·  3227 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Tinderization of Feeling

re: The texts thing.

I personally don't reply to some texts for days because I have developed a sort of "queuing" system for messages. I have adhd, and I really do get overwhelmed with the amount of email/texts/phone calls/snail mail I get.

So I put it in order, I have to reply to everyone in the order it was received (FIFO) or if it is something that is REALLY urgent move that to the top of the queue and work from there.

It really really really isn't a personal thing, and I've had some friendships struggle because of it. I guess I'm saying please don't assume because someone is a slow texter that they are being passive aggressive from the outset, some of us need extra time to process :D





_refugee_  ·  3225 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You are the exception to the rule.

It is far easier on the psyche and the person to believe that everyone is the rule and not the exception.

I could cut the girls I want to be friends with the slack that you deserve, and be eternally disappointed.

mknod  ·  3223 days ago  ·  link  ·  

:( well there's also no sense in being eternally disappointed