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NotADoc  ·  2950 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Why some Chinese millennials are taking up the hermit’s life in the mountains

Very interesting, I can see the appeal. It looks beautiful there, and calm. I wouldn't understand life in China, but even in my little rural town and our little hospital clinic, life can get very stressful and you're always hooked into it. I spend usually somewhere between 9-12 hours a day dealing with patients, and then come home and usually my phone still hooks my into the hospital, and if it doesn't, several people in my apartment complex are patients, and have knocked on my door asking for refills. I'm not even a clinician!

I could understand the urge to just drop everything and flee to the country. Surely everyone has wanted to at some point. Interesting to see people actually do it for more than a weekend away.





Dala  ·  2949 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'd love to do something like this for a couple of months, I don't know that I could do it for much longer than that. Those mountains are beautiful. Maybe as long as I had plenty of yarn or some sheep and the knowledge to produce my own yarn, that would help me be able to prolong my stay.

user-inactivated  ·  2950 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I could understand the urge to just drop everything and flee to the country.

While I'm morally against the idea of becoming an absolute hermit, there is an appeal to to me about giving up more materialistic lifestyles. There seems to be some truth to the idea that the less you own or are attached to, the less you're worried about losing and that brings about an emotional security. At the same time, the less you own, the more mobile you're able to be. Someone who rents and could put all their possessions in a backpack or two would have a much easier time moving halfway across the country on a whim than someone who owns a house filled to the brim with stuff. For the latter, being able to unload everything both literally and emotionally might be a bit of a challenge.

Devac  ·  2950 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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NotADoc  ·  2950 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I agree with you. I think flirting with isolation is something people love to do. People love to stay at home on weekends with hot chocolate and movies, they like taking boats out to fish, or going on weekend hikes. Being alone and away is a good way to recuperate.

On the other hand, I did get to experience the bad end of that. Several years ago I picked up all my stuff and moved far away from home, and all my friends and family. I got sick enough at one point that I landed myself in ER, but with no friends or family, it was a very isolated and stressful experience. I wonder how the people living their lives in those mountains deal with that kind of isolation.

user-inactivated  ·  2950 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The struggles of being isolated definitely illustrate the importance of being a part of a community. Even if you're in good health, emotionally, mentally, and physically, there's probably challenge after challenge out their. Chances are the few people that do choose to pursue asceticism/hermit lifestyles allow themselves an out if they decide it's ever time to change. Something along the lines of "I'm leaving guys. If I decide to come back though, mind if I give you a call? I might need help."