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user-inactivated  ·  2945 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Why You Will Marry The Wrong Person

It does. Thank you. I wish it could be less vague, but, as you've said, every person is different.

I hope it's okay if I ask you one more thing. If a person says they like spending time with you but, for whatever reason, can never seem to find the time unless you put effort into making it (say, by visiting them at home or at work), what does that say about the person and about the relationship?





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user-inactivated  ·  2945 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Perhaps it was unwise of me to bring up the question without a proper context, since it impedes your ability to provide insight.

Either way, I appreciate the advice. It's been good to learn things from a more healthy perspective, since mine is quite a bit skewed still.