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comment by goobster
goobster  ·  1900 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: UTAH TRIP REPORT or: How I Learned Not To Hike Alone by Breaking My Leg

"There's no need to discourage people..."

Interesting you read that meaning into my question.

I was always trained (Boy Scouts, etc.) that you just don't go into the wilderness alone. Bring a buddy.

I know there is a whole culture of solo hiking. Sure. But every one of these people is making some value judgments about their safety before they step out of their vehicle.

I asked an honest question of how he'd done the personal math. I didn't discourage anybody from anything.





necroptosis  ·  1900 days ago  ·  link  ·  

An honest question wouldn't have been prefaced with statements such as

    This is, like, the first rule of stepping outside of civilization: Don't go alone.
or
    Is it just young white dude hubris? Or were you trying to prove something?
An honest question wouldn't include
    against all the advice of people who do this a lot, and common sense
in the very question. You're leading someone to answer the question with guilt. I would absolutely consider this to be discouraging wording. I'd guess that this is why ButterflyEffect called your response "preaching and antagonizing". I personally agree with him.