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user-inactivated  ·  1863 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: October 9th 2019  ·  

AHHHH. (This is another relationship vent brought to you by kantos)

5 jars of your most fermented jam. Throw in the whole trash bag too, please.

I'm my mind is numb from the level of face plant I just achieved.

   Invite girl over for dinner 

Proceed to have nice meal

Gets to that moment of make a move or not

Ask bluntly after a nice night if she's looking for a relationship

"Not particularly"

Land softly with a couple minutes of not awkward conversation

Exit the girl

Gonna ride out the feeling of the L for the duration of the evening. Then call friends in the morning to get back on the buck.

Fortunate enough I can bounce back with a game plan, but damn that was rough.

I'm taking a warm shower, and going to bed for a mental reset.

Night hubs. o7





user-inactivated  ·  1863 days ago  ·  link  ·  

At least you made a move. You'll feel infinitely better for trying. Generally when you actually put in effort there's a 75% success rate. Don't beat yourself up over the remaining 25%.

user-inactivated  ·  1860 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Keeping this in mind since its likely to sink in over the week. Makes sense logically. Appreciate it nil.