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OftenBen  ·  1797 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Boys today. Oof. (seriously intense article)

Just disappointed.

These articles keep getting written and nothing changes.

Apparently nothing can be learned.

Her last example, the 14 year old at the party? He was sexually assaulted. He can't even see himself as a victim, because he isn't permitted to be one.

My stomach was churning before I read this, why did I do this to myself?

Evidently I can't learn either.





goobster  ·  1796 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I keep thinking about HER mindset: "Heh. This'll be fun. This virgin isn't going to know what hit him! He's going to be blown away by what this feels like... and I'll have a fun laugh with my girlfriends about it and never see him again."