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comment by shoe77
shoe77  ·  4342 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: Will You Marry Me?

I always felt that sharing life with many people of the world would be ideal for me. This doesn't necessarily mean sexual relationships. It just means there isn't any implicit apprehension of meeting new people or spending time away from "the chosen one." Not saying you can't have other friends outside a marriage, but I think the concept itself would just be limiting no matter how hard you tried. I eventually still want to raise awesome kids, but I want to lead my own life not necessarily dedicated to the ideals of family life. Some say you need someone to share your happiness with. But I say, you have whole wide world to share happiness with.