Everybody between the ages of 19 and 23 is incompatible with everyone else in that age range. I'm only sort of joking. People's rate of personal growth/change is through the roof at that age, and almost every major factor in their life be it school, work, finances, social group, etc is in a state of heightened flux. It's a tough age for two people to link up and want to stick around each other for a sustained period of time. I've found that as I get older, my relationships lasted longer and longer as I got better at sorting out what I was looking for and my longer term goals settled into place allowing a longer term relationship to have a foundation to rest on.I'm trying to figure out if that's because I'm picky, or because my personality is just incompatible with most women between the ages of 19 and 23.